We all know there is a suite of “existential” tragedies inherent to human existence. Defining the concept precisely is impossible, but I would say roughly that an existential tragedy is a tragedy that arises from very basic and universal, or near-universal, aspects of our experience. I thought it could be interesting to list them. Let … Continue reading Existential tragedies- a partial list
Category: Life Advice & Interpersonal Applied Ethics
Ugly, self-centred conversations
If you enjoy this article check out my book, I’ve made it free to help you self-quarantine: https://deponysum.com/2020/03/30/something-to-read-in-quarantine-essays-2018-to-2020/ My least favourite kind of conversation is talking to people whose goals are centred on conversations. Some examples: People who think good politics is centred on the right representations in discourse- use of the right shibboleths, avoidance of … Continue reading Ugly, self-centred conversations
My method for dealing with anxiety
I wanted to outline the methods, strategies and approaches that have helped me with anxiety (moderate to severe OCD). Although I hope you might find something useful here, you may not. Seek qualified and competent psychological advice. To make it very clear that this is only my experience, and not general advice, I've written a … Continue reading My method for dealing with anxiety
The problems with “no interrupting” as a categorical social norm
I've noticed that people are increasingly adverse to interrupting others, especially in progressive circles. The thought is admirable- shy people, or people who have been taught that their opinions matter less, tend to lose out in a social environment in which interruptions are common. This may have a particular effect on oppressed individuals such as … Continue reading The problems with “no interrupting” as a categorical social norm
The dilemma of accountability
In a previous job I dealt with a patient who was in chronic pain, had various mental health issues and was mildly developmentally delayed. Faced with numerous problems, this patient tended to become desperate, demanding and even somewhat aggressive and abusive when he didn't get what he needed. I found that there were two ways … Continue reading The dilemma of accountability
An Apologia for Apologies
Few topics are subject to as much motivated cognition as the apology. A great example is the way in which, after someone makes a public apology, commentators will scour through their apology for any imperfection: “I feel terrible about what I have done” becomes “She’s making it all about herself!” “At the time I was … Continue reading An Apologia for Apologies
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